A popular one is obviously drinks/ coffee since its less of a money and time commitment. I’m not a fan of them but for most it’s a good way to test out the waters without much risk.
I came to a point where I was going on so many dates that I started hating meal dates. Again it’s super common, everyone’s gotta eat right? They bored me and there wasn’t much room to hide if you didn’t like your date.
I prefer activities such as mini golf and bowling where awkward silences are acceptable and since you can usually find moments to yourself. In my opinion bowling is better in a group setting so you might hold off on that until you’re ready to have your friends test out your potential significant other.
The key is to find something both of you enjoy doing. Are you active, maybe a short hike would be fun and adventurous? Do you enjoy trying new beers, find a local brewery or winery and out a new spin on the just drinks date. If you’re more of a homebody the immediate idea might be going to see a movie but a more original idea would be going to a planetarium! They’ll do short films and lectures about the galaxy which is cool and star gazing is pretty romantic. You’ll be comfortable relaxing in the dark theater plus some even do lazer light concert shows which is another unique experience. These are shorter than regular movies so they aren’t as much of a time commitment and hopefully won’t cut into conversation time as much.
The early dating stages are when you try your hardest to impress someone so find out things they like and run with it! I really like dogs and a twist to the usual meal date was being taken to a restaurant that was covered in dog pictures! It was unique, playful, and showed that he listened and wanted to impress me. My boyfriend really likes boats so our first couple of dates we would check out all the local docks, walking around to read all the boat names and pick out our favorites. You don’t have to impress a first date with how expensive something is, just how thoughtful you can be.
Definitely an activity option for me – if they can’t handle my insanely competitive side…best to find that out early on 🤣
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Just watched a dating show on TV. Conclusion from one of the psychologists: Stop making yourself as attractive as possible! Be genuine. You should not find as many as possible but you should find the right one! 😉
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A second date I went on (pre-COVID) was Axe Throwing! 🤣🤣 that was a hoot, I’m a very sore looser (I found out that day!) And I was completely RUBBISH at it. Not a happy bunny, but I didn’t kill him so I guess it wasn’t a total disaster?!
Activity dates are always good. They give you something to talk about if things lull or there’s just nothing between you. You can still have a decent time.