Thanks so much Melissa for this nomination! We’re strong, independent women who don’t need no man to handle our finances! Any blog that is here to empower women is an excellent blog in my book. And here are the questions you asked me:
What is the sentence that stopped you in your path and changes your life completely?
I didn’t really enjoy high school and purposely picked a school several states away to really start over. I was kinda surprised when I still felt the same way 18 months later and that was when I realized “no matter where you go, you are still you”. That’s when I decided to come back home to finish school, find a psychiatrist, and start therapy. That was when I changed my life and started my journey to managing my mental health and becoming the healthiest version of myself.
What does success means to you?
Success seems to really point toward career in my opinion. And a successful career to me, would mean being one of the best in your field and being well known for your talent. Perhaps you also have a great salary and win awards, that definitely sounds like the promise of success.
What do you need to let go of?
Melissa, my god you go right for the heart don’t you?! Hm, I need to let go the fear of failing. I need to become more comfortable making mistakes in front of others and learn to not fear rejection from others.
What is the best advice you will give your youngest self?
This one is easiest enough, I would tell her to get into therapy sooner. And OMG, STOP TALKING TO BOYS WHO DON’T DESERVE YOU!
What is your biggest financial mistake?
I don’t know if mistake is the best word, but in retrospect, I definitely think it would have been smarter to save money and go to community college for two years and then finish up my degree at a more expensive school for the last two years. I think High Schoolers are really unaware of all the college expenses and it should become more popular to save money by going to community college.
What is the best life pieces of advice someone gives to you
The best pieces of life advice I’ve received were “treat yourself like you treat your friends” and “think of the worst that can happen, can you handle that?”. The first has been helpful in being kinder to myself and crediting my positives more so I don’t dwell on the negatives. That’s still very much a work in progress but it really stops me in my tracks when I’m explaining a situation and being negative and she says “well if your friend had this same problem what would you say” and my attitude immediately changes to be more supportive. The second piece is more of an anxiety tactic. I worry quite a lot and you would think that imagining the worst would only increase my anxiety. But I allow myself a minute to indulge in all that can go wrong and then I ask myself if I could live with it and surprisingly, most of the time I say yes and begin to feel better. Trip, sweat, and fumble over my words during a presentation? Sounds like just a regular human who makes mistakes and an event the class is likely to forget in a week. Get rejected or dumped by the cute guy? Wouldn’t be the first time and I’m still here standing, ready to try again. You’re capable of much more than you think, and stronger too.
What is your singular goal in life?
This is easy too, to be happy and healthy. Healthy to me means managing my mental health issues and exercising to keep my body from aging too quickly. Happy to me means feeling strong connections to those close to me (such as my sisters and significant other) and being fulfilled by my passion for writing and purpose with working.
10 Random Facts About Me
- My two front teeth are fake (I broke/chipped them multiple times as a kid)
- I run a personal Instagram account for my dog because I’m obsessed
- I’m eating a ton of cereal and ice cream this summer and loving it
- I also eat odd things with Mayo (like fries and mac and cheese)
- I recent started dating my boyfriend 🙂
- I like to do Zudoku puzzles on the train
- Spring is my favorite season
- I have never broken a bone (knock on wood)
- My sisters and I have been touring different Escape room locations to try and beat every room
- I’ve been writing poetry for over 10 years now and hope to publish a collection in the future
My Favorite Blog
The blog I can’t get enough of these days is Career Girl! She inspires every girl to recognize their worth and land their dream job! I think motivation and empowerment like this is so important to women today! Aside from giving tips and advice on job hunting and office issues, she also helps women look their professional best. From outside beauty hair products to inner beauty meditation articles, she’s got your back covered!
Questions to Answer from Me ( I’m going pretty creative/poetry with these questions)
- How did you get into Poetry?
- What’s your writing process like for the blog?
- What’s your favorite poem that you wrote?
- What/Who inspires you?
- How do you picture yourself in 5 years?
If you have been nominated for The Liebster Award AND YOU CHOOSE TO ACCEPT IT, write a blog post about the Liebster award in which you should do the following:
- Thank the person who nominated you, and posts a link to their blog. Try to include a little promotion for the individual who nominated you.
- Display the award on your blog — by including it in your post and/or displaying it using a “widget” or a “gadget”. You can download images for the award here
- Write a 150-300 word post on your favourite blog that is not your own. Explain why you like the blog, provide links.
- Answer your questions and provide 10 random facts about yourself.
- Nominate 5 – 11 blogs that you feel deserve the award, who have less than 200 followers and ask them your own questions.
- List these rules in your post (You can copy and paste from here or from this site)
- Don’t forget to inform the people/blogs you nominated about it.
The Blogs I’m nominating are: