You say you’ll have to remember
what I like for next time.
But there never was a next time.
It was a last time
And I wish I held on a little bit longer
I wish I could still remember
the feel of your skin
and the sound of your voice.
And I wish I didn’t have to remember at all.
She pretends to be fine
hoping that he cant see through her mind.
I should have learned to shield my heart
Now every time I see you, I can’t help but fall apart.
The truth hurts more than your lies
Our past is left to hover in the October skies.
The warm weather is starting to cool off but you want your summer fling to keep heating up, here’s how to stroke the flame.
Make plans for the fall
Act like the weather isn’t changing and keep making plans as you have been. Instead of heading to the beach or a hot summer night concert you can go apple picking, explore a corn maze, and carve some pumpkins. School might be starting up again and schedules will get busier so it’s important to continue to make time for each other and experience fun things together. Even if you’re going to schools in different states you can still plan dates in advance. Have him come up to visit in September and plan a date to see him in October.
Test out the waters
Try to learn what their thoughts are about a real relationship. Is it on their mind or are they anti-commitment? Approach the topic gently and in a non threatening way so they will open up and you can get an honest answer.
Start talking about the future together
Along with making fall date plans, you can talk about more serious things that would move the relationship forward. Has he met your friends and family? Have you talked about being exclusive? Talk about holiday plans to have them think into the future without putting on too much pressure.
After testing out the waters, you probably have a good idea of where their head is at. Now it’s time to be honest with how you’re feeling and where you’re hoping this relationship will head. You might both want the same thing but were worried about ruining the bond you have now. It’s important to be honest and direct so that there is no room left for miscommunication. This will help you know if it’s time to really end things or if the relationship can become official.