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Whats changed on the dating apps in the past 2 years

Tinder 

Tinder used to make you have a facebook or Instagram in order to sign up, perhaps as a way to help verify real people. Now you can just do it by phone number if you want so if you wanted to make a fake profile, lie about age, or maybe promote your business instead then you’re basically free to do so. Tinder has also added in a limit on how many people you can like a day. 

 

Bumble  

Bumble donates to a cause when you send that first message so now if I match a guy I always follow through with that initial message. I used to really enjoy the fact that girls had to message first but now I find myself a bit annoyed that the choice is taken away. Any other app I have no problem messaging first, that’s not the issue that bothers me. It’s the pressure, responsibility, and lack of choice that seems to bug me a little. 

 

Okcupid

They’re really trying to have you pay for their platform now. You have to have a membership to see who likes you so you have message people in order for them to know you might be interested. This now requires a bit more effort than just clicking a button so people might take profiles a little more seriously than just a swiping game.

 

Hinge

Hinge uses your facebook friends’ networks to find you matches. It also limits the amount of likes you can do in a day, it reminds me a lot of Coffee Meets Bagel with how much effort they put in to try and make long lasting connections and not just be a hook up app. They have you like a particular photo or writing blurb and can add in a little comment or question to help promote conversation.

 

Initial 10 thoughts:

 

This gym rat fad has not died down because everyone has abs now and it is not good for the 3 bowls of ice cream I’ve been having every week.

 

The only time a guy will message you instantly after matching is if he’s only looking to hook up, otherwise you’re going to wait a few hours or days.

 

The layout of the apps are all similar but sometimes i mean to swipe for more pictures and i end up swiping left or super liking so that’s been super unfortunate. 

 

It used to be very common to have all the apps and see the same people on each of them but it’s seeming like people aren’t crossing over as much.

 

I don’t know why guys put up pictures with kids because they constantly have to explain how they’re related to the child in their bio.

 

The time limit on Bumble is more stressful than I remember. But I do like that the message gets cleared out if they don’t answer in those following 24 hours. It helps keep the clutter out.

 

There’s these new jokes, quotes, and memes that I’m not up to date with and actually googled some.

 

Guys are absurdly butt hurt about having to include their height in their bio

 

I’m also very annoyed by bio that say they hate this app or are just looking to waste their time. If you don’t want to play the game then get off the field

 

Honestly, Tinder is my favorite platform right now, which seems so tragic for the other companies since Tinder started off as the infamous hook up app.

 

5,000 Followers!

Last month was my 3 year blogiversary and I was hoping to reach 5k by then but 2 weeks off isn’t anything to be bummed about in my opinion. I’m thrilled to be here and have the support from all of you!

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I remember my first 6 months being happy to reach 300 followers so the growth since then is incredible! I have a post scheduled at the end of the week for driving traffic to your site so check back in to see that!

The one thing I would like to say though, is other bloggers don’t have to be your competition. I run different series every year, my first one was reblogging other sites and my series this year is giving a spotlight to emerging poets! I want to help other bloggers and artists just like I’ve been helped in the blogging community. Showing love to other sites hasn’t harmed my stats, but it has given me new friends!

So I encourage you all to work together and not against each other.

 

Social Sunday

Summer is nearly here !!

You might have done some spring cleaning with your blog and socials clearing out inactive accounts.

Now it’s time to find new engaging content by sharing your links!

Please leave any and all social links in the comments and check other comments to connect with other bloggers!

 

If you haven’t already please consider preordering

my next collection Where I Ache!

 

I’d love to connect with you all as well on my pages so take a look! Thank you all for the support!

Twitter // Instagram // Goodreads // Amazon

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Social Saturday!!

I know most bloggers probably went into the New Year will goals for their blogs. I have to imagine a lot of those goals included increasing engagement and view/follow numbers so I figured I’d try to help out!

Please leave any and all social links in the comments and check other comments to connect with other bloggers!

 

I’d love to connect with you all as well on my pages so take a look! Thank you all for the support!

Twitter

Instagram

Goodreads

Amazon

 

Have a great weekend!!! ❤

Follow Friday!

I haven’t done a Follow Friday in a while and I’ve recently seen some new followers so comment a link to your blog below and a little blurb on what you write about!

And a fun something about yourself, like your favorite date idea/activity? 🙂

 

Leave your social media links too if you want!

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