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Why dependability is the most attractive quality in a man

Now I’m a Taurus girl so security and stability make me weak in the knees but hear me out because I think you’re all about to swoon a little too.

 

A dependable guy just gets better as a relationship progresses. When you first meet him, he responds to your text in a timely manner, shows up to a date at the time he said he would, and doesn’t leave you guessing about how the relationship may be going. 

 

A dependable guy isn’t playing nearly as many games as the average guy in this modern dating app culture. You’re not getting left on read and you don’t have to play the game of who texts who first. You’re already more secure in the connection. You know where you stand because he’s standing steady. 

 

In a relationship, you can depend on him to be there for you emotionally and for him to hold a steady belief in your relationship growing. In a marriage, you can depend on him to be a partner in taking care of the household and be a stand up father to your kids. 

 

A dependable guy will be there physically when he says he will and he’ll be there for you emotionally when you need him to be. That feeling of security in a relationship immediately releases a load of stress. Less stress in a relationship helps you stay in sync and strive together in harmony. 

 

Ramblings to Bleu

And I wonder if you think about me

if you wrote about me

if you’ve moved on

I wonder what you told your sister about us

and what she thinks about me now that its over

You have a beautiful mind

and I saw it again today.

Would you have been too much for me if you had let us have a real chance?

Or would you have lifted me into the light?

You sparked something deep and vulnerable in me

and I don’t think I ever got the chance to thank you for that.

I don’t always understand your songs

but would you let me listen one more time?

Record one more just for me

-April 2017

PC