Dear Dateable Advice Column Next Week!!

First installment of the advice column series comes out a week from today!

Make sure to ask your questions for next month!


Follow Friday!

I’ve been getting some new readers lately and I wanted to give everyone a chance to network so feel free to comment your social media pages!

I’ve also been wondering if I should make an Instagram for the blog/poetry, do most of you have separate instagrams?

Thanks for all the support, this blogging community is amazing!

Happy Friday!

Monthly Advice Column!

Hello Readers!

Hope everyone’s New Year is starting off well! Some new things going on for DD in 2018 is the start of a monthly advice column!!

I was trying to find some type of website like form spring (remember that? lol) to help with anonymity but I haven’t found anything yet. Of course, feel free to leave a comment, go to my contact page, or social media pages in order to write in your question or situation that you need love advice on!

Starts next month!

Online Dating Rule #2: The Pit of Unreality

Rose in Full Bloom


Hopefully by now you’ve verified your partner’s existence. Good for you! If not, go here and read how.

You’re in a verified, certified, bonafide online relationship now. It’s a bit scary, but it’s definitely exhilarating! Being in unchartered waters makes you feel somewhat naughty.

Many people look down on, or ashamed of online dating. So many people pretend not to have ever been in one. But here you are, braving the path least traveled. You should be proud of yourself.

But before you get too excited and start telling people to f*ck off, you need to understand how important this time in your relationship is.

Just like in any kind of relationship, there are two things that helps it flourish; communication and honesty.

Unfortunately for us online daters, there is a trap waiting quietly for us to fall into. I call it “The Pit of Unreality”. Dun, dun, duuuuunn!!! Sounds…

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Making Music

Last week for Project LoveFest!! It’s been amazing to see so many cool and diverse bloggers!!!

Rose in Full Bloom

d9941e0d3b3e9cbe5805bb76a78a5fb6There it is again, his heart beating

 out of his chest.

He thinks I can’t tell, but I can see it in his face.

Playing it cool doesn’t work on me. I read his body like sheet music.

His breath quickens setting the time signature for the most beautiful piece.

Each of his heart beats mapping the quarter and half notes.

The intermittent kisses he softly places upon me, give way to the rests in each measure.

While the stroking of his hands along my curves plays out like the soft manipulation of a violin riding the beautiful waves of unimaginable sound.

My moans set the tone as the notes flow from within me and land perfectly on the staff.

The way he watches me like a conductor watches his music come to life, sends chills throughout my body.

He plays me masterfully, producing heavenly sound with every motion.


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Adrift in a Sea of Men

Heartbreak and Hope

via Daily Prompt: Adrift

With online dating I sometimes feel adrift in a sea of men.  A bit lost and confused; what am I doing here and what do I want?.  It is clear that there is one thing all of the guys want.  Some focus on trying to arrange to meet, some are more interested in getting my Whatsapp details while there is the odd one that simply sends me a dick pic.  Then of course there is huge variation in the way they ask ranging from very crude requests to one man who was very polite but honest about what he wanted.  Actually I quite liked the honesty, it was refreshing and in many respects quite respectful.  Better that than a request to meet for a drink, oh and sex but of course you’ll agree when you meet me.  There is one that has a picture of Nutella…

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