Looking Back on 2020 (A year in review)

Lets look back on the highlights in 2020 on Debatably Dateable!

New collection: Even the Leaves is 5 months old already! It’s crazy that I’ve already published 3 poetry collections with Ddateable. And 2021 will by my 5 year anniversary having Debatably Dateable! I’m not sure what’s next but I’m proud of all that I’ve accomplished already and I’m forever thankful for all the support you have shown through the years!

Favorite poems:

Wish You Would (Sept) – A classic DDateable poem, and the muse consumes all of my 2020 so how could I not?

Breathe in Love (May) – A poem I wrote from his point of view, which I enjoy doing and don’t do often enough.

Devilish Love (Feb) – I was binging Lucifer at the time and it was pretty cool to put him into a poem, any other fans catch some of my hints?

Your Favorite / Most viewed poem:

I’ll be Your Everything (Jan) – In just a few lines this poem tells a love story from now till old age.

Noteworthy: Wedding Day (August) – My sister got married this summer!!

Favorite posts:

Dating apps can make you healthy (Jan) – I talk about how miserable dating apps are all the time so it’s nice to throw in an article where they don’t seem so bad and they even help you set. goals.

Dinner and movie terrible date (April) – I stand by that statement and there will be more articles to come on other terrible dates ideas in 2021!

How to get over someone (July) – we’re all still not over someone so this article is perfect for anyone. There’s the funny joke on Dating apps that you need to figure out who’s married -single, single -single, and waiting on their ex -single.

Your Favorite/ Most viewed post:

I’m only giving the energy I receive (April) – Amen to that girl! I love this post, I would have mentioned it myself if you guys didn’t! If that’s the one thing you ever take away from my blog, then I consider it a success!

Noteworthy: Pandemic Dating (July) – We’re in the second wave of the pandemic, how could I end this post without mentioning it?

From the Start

Here we go again
trying to break my heart
Should have called it from the start.
It took so long to make you mine
now I know I was just wasting my time.
Sleepless nights spent thinking about you,
well it’s all so sad but I ain’t gunna cry for you.



Follow Friday!

I’ve been getting some new readers lately and I wanted to give everyone a chance to network so feel free to comment your social media pages!

I’ve also been wondering if I should make an Instagram for the blog/poetry, do most of you have separate instagrams?

Thanks for all the support, this blogging community is amazing!

Happy Friday!

Monthly Advice Column!

Hello Readers!

Hope everyone’s New Year is starting off well! Some new things going on for DD in 2018 is the start of a monthly advice column!!

I was trying to find some type of website like form spring (remember that? lol) to help with anonymity but I haven’t found anything yet. Of course, feel free to leave a comment, go to my contact page, or social media pages in order to write in your question or situation that you need love advice on!

Starts next month!

Online Dating Rule #2: The Pit of Unreality

Rose in Full Bloom


Hopefully by now you’ve verified your partner’s existence. Good for you! If not, go here and read how.

You’re in a verified, certified, bonafide online relationship now. It’s a bit scary, but it’s definitely exhilarating! Being in unchartered waters makes you feel somewhat naughty.

Many people look down on, or ashamed of online dating. So many people pretend not to have ever been in one. But here you are, braving the path least traveled. You should be proud of yourself.

But before you get too excited and start telling people to f*ck off, you need to understand how important this time in your relationship is.

Just like in any kind of relationship, there are two things that helps it flourish; communication and honesty.

Unfortunately for us online daters, there is a trap waiting quietly for us to fall into. I call it “The Pit of Unreality”. Dun, dun, duuuuunn!!! Sounds…

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Making Music

Last week for Project LoveFest!! It’s been amazing to see so many cool and diverse bloggers!!!

Rose in Full Bloom

d9941e0d3b3e9cbe5805bb76a78a5fb6There it is again, his heart beating

 out of his chest.

He thinks I can’t tell, but I can see it in his face.

Playing it cool doesn’t work on me. I read his body like sheet music.

His breath quickens setting the time signature for the most beautiful piece.

Each of his heart beats mapping the quarter and half notes.

The intermittent kisses he softly places upon me, give way to the rests in each measure.

While the stroking of his hands along my curves plays out like the soft manipulation of a violin riding the beautiful waves of unimaginable sound.

My moans set the tone as the notes flow from within me and land perfectly on the staff.

The way he watches me like a conductor watches his music come to life, sends chills throughout my body.

He plays me masterfully, producing heavenly sound with every motion.


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